With the discussion about Amanda Todd and one error she made as a child which resulted in her eventually being part of the reason she committed suicide, we need to openly discuss what is really happening on the net but in particular to chat sites which state they are for teens and kids. I hope this helps you to better understand what is going on. This is a good read for both adults and kids.
A few days ago I received a cry for help from a 15 year old girl who was worried her friend was now being stalked online. When I asked her which chat room was causing issues she told me it was a site called Chat Avenue and in particular the Kids Chat which clearly states it is for older kids and teens. No adult content is supposed to be on there and no one over the age of 18 is supposed to be using it. So I checked it out and here is what you need to know. After you read this, if you were a user of that chat room or your kids or friends are, you will want to leave it permanently.
First when you go to the site you have a bunch of rules you have to agree to including:
Hey kids and youths! Welcome to our safe and moderated kids chat room.
We offer a great place for youths to chat and hang out when they are bored or want to meet new friends.
Simply enter your nickname below and connect.
Also, come join an all new kids chat site
Meet with hundreds of cool kids, youths and teens!
So once I entered a screen name, I immediately entered a chat room full of what I soon found out were many pedophiles. Within the first minute of entering, I had several Private Messages or PM’s from room members. Always starting out with ASL or Age Sex Location. So I told them I was 13 to see what would happen. Well I soon found out that these people I was speaking to were far from being kids like the site advertised and I was propositioned by a 60 year old man for cam sex. There were no moderators and have never been any in the many times since that I have checked. The room was filled with persons by the name of 9 f meaning 9 year old female, daddy loves little boys, Gramps, 13 m with hard dick, 10 yo m looking for role play meaning 10 year old boy looking or role play, etc etc etc. I have attached one screenshot so you can see what actually goes on in the room and what kind of people there are. It is not suitable for youth or kids.
I emailed both the site which hosts the free chat and the admin but there was never any answer. The kids in there will not listen to anything I have to say about what they are dealing with. The same kids are in there a lot as well. Where are their parents? I know it is not possible to know what our kids are up to all the time but these parents seem to not take any interest and so the pedophiles have many young targets to choose from. I just went into the room to get that screenshot and was once again bombarded by guys and one person named bisexygirl… who mentions that she and her boyfriend would go on cam and have sex if a girl would turn their cam on and play for them meaning masturbate. What the pedophile is doing, is showing another captured video as his own and then capturing the teen’s video for his own use. He is not a 16 year old bi girl. WArning these kids did nothing. They think they are above and beyond being captured and shared on a ton of pedophile and other sexual video sites. The bottom line is that site needs to be shut down as there is not moderation and because of that the pedophiles are running free.
Do not let your friends, kids or even you as a teen use that site unless you are ready to deal with pedophiles because they are there waiting for you. Other sites to watch out for is another directly linked from that chat room to another one called kidschat.net which is also not moderated. I believe both rooms were made by pedophiles in hopes of attracting kids and teens…guess what? It worked. Chat Roulette is another one. Omegle is one of the worst. Blogtv is another one. If you choose to use those chat rooms, you run the risk of becoming a victim of a pedophile and may be stalked just like Amanda Todd was. I am sure she didn’t worry about that until it happened and by that time it was too late.
The bottom line is unless you as the parent check the chat rooms out for yourself which you allow your kids to use, you really do not know what happens. Parents need to check out those rooms for themselves and then decide whether or not that is a safe place to trust their children to. If your kids use chat rooms, you need to talk to them and tell them how to stay safe and talk to you if ever they are approached by a pedophile online. I will be giving the chat room info to the Anonymous and I hope they can help get rid of them. It will be a start. Thanks for reading and I hope that you were able to get something out of this post. Stay safe. xxx
My first undercover video showing the dangers of that site, followed by the second one where I posed as a 13 year old girl. ****VIEWER DISCRETION IS STRONGLY ADVISED DUE TO MATURE CONTENT***
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Video 2 posing as 13 year old girl:
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Warning for Parents of young chat room users:
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